Six Types of Men to Avoid: Finding Mr రైట్

There is no exact formula for finding Mr. Right. Some women claim that when the right man comes along, they just know. This is the heart talking. But we know that the heart has no brains so we don't just know. We use our brains to know. It's odd that when the love bug bites, even the smartest lady goes around in a cloudy haze ignoring friends and living out her fairy tale romance with her prince.

Now, before you get a bad bite from the love bug, let's do some brain work by learning the types of men to avoid when finding Mr. Right.

The Liar

Putting up with a dishonest man makes a stupid martyr out of a woman. It may be hard to change the ways of a constant liar. Remember that this man could become your husband or the father of your children in the future. You do not want to live in a sham the rest of your life.

The Cheater

Beware of a man who cheats on his partner to pursue you. He will most likely do the same to you if you fall for his romantic ploy. You wouldn't want to live with a bothered conscience or play the fool in a game of deception.

The Blow-Off

Have you encountered a man who frequently breaks his promise or doesn't show up on a date? You're in tough luck. You've encountered a blow-off man. It is dumb to waste your time on him because he seems to have fun making women feel desperate. It is best to cut ties with him or pretend he does not exist.

The Alcoholic or Drug Addict

Being in the company of an alcoholic or drug addict is a risk to one's safety and integrity. When a man is under the influence of alcohol or drugs, he may commit monstrous acts that could endanger your life or cause social embarrassment to you and your family. Spare yourself from grave scandal or from being thrown in jail for drug possession. You deserve a peaceful life.

The Sex-Obsessed

Sometimes, a man just wants one thing in a relationship and that is sex. He comes real strong by advancing more and more with his busy forelimbs. After he gets what he wants, he may drop you like a hot potato. Steer clear of such a man who treats women as sex objects.

The Abuser

Some men are capable of throwing hurtful words or hitting women. They have a twisted sense of masculinity where they show their power by hurting someone. Stay away from these men... far, far away. No woman deserves to be treated like a punching bag.

Now you know the types of men to avoid when finding Mr. Right. They are all around making women's lives miserable like hell. If you do not allow yourself to fall into your romantic illusions, you will not just know when Mr. Right comes along. You will be in the know. That makes it all worth waiting for.

Passion & Love

Let's get real, that is what is most important in all long term relationships. That is what everyone should be looking for in a new relationship. How do we find it, that can be the hard part. It takes a lot of work from both people. Are you willing to put in the effort to accomplish this goal? You should be if you are reading this. Are you willing to use all you are to achieve it? Is your love willing to enter into a relationship that will make both of you in love and passionate forever? That is the love you should be looking for and longing for for the rest of your life. Not many people find it. Why, because they settle on lesser relationships that they are comfortable with. They try to find love and passion in the relationship and never find it. They wander from one relationship to another without searching for what they really want and need. Check out the divorce rate. Why is it so high? I think by now you can make a good guess.

Do you cry at a sad ending to a movie or story? Do you cry at a happy ending? That should show you that you have a lot of emotions. You have feelings that need to be shared with another person, a person that you are willing to open up to no matter what. Don't settle on a person you can't share this with or doe's not care. If you do you will be in the divorce rate. You deserve better. Life is to short. Set goals for what you want in a relationship. You have a lot of love and passion to give and you deserve to have it in return.

There is a lot of relationship advice out there, some good some bad but they don't deal with what people feel,or what their emotions are. Love and passion are feelings and emotions that are beyond words. Look into yourself and feel your emotions at times that you emotions come out. The good emotions are the ones you want to build on [ bet no one ever came up with that Idea]. If you have these emotions you have a love to give that is beyond words. And you are deserving of a relationship that will enhance your feelings and emotions. Not a lot of people have these. Consider yourself extremely gifted. It shows people what a wonderful and loving person you are. I bet you never looked at it that way. Don't get depressed about your emotions and feeling. You have something that other people have never and may never know. You have more to give than you may ever receive. you are the type of person that people secretly envy. Look at other people's emotions in trying times. Do they have emotions similar to yours or do they have any emotions. Or maybe they just suppress them or they just don't care. Do they really have love and passion in their lives or do they seem to just wander aimlessly. Just taking life as it comes. You may not feel it but your are one of the most beautiful people in the world. You deserve the love and passion in your life and I pray you find it.

How To Make Love Work

Most of us search for love. We want to feel that security, comfort, joy, peace, and happiness. We want to share our dreams and share our heart and we long for the same in return. Some of us already have it. And if you haven't found it yet, believe it or not but we all find it. It may not come when you want it to come but that doesn't mean that it's not going to show up in your life because it WILL!!! We just have to make it work whether we have it now or when it comes in the future. When I say make it work it's about building your commitment, showing how much you care and making an effort to show how you feel about the person. It's about trusting who your with, it's about letting go of past feeling and operating in the new.

It's important that you KNOW the person you love. Know what makes them happy, know what makes them sad, know what they love, their passion, ambitions and dreams. Some of us come across love and we miss the mark not being attentive to the small things about our partner and their needs. Prevent that from happening in your life and don't EVER make that mistake. Love is the greatest thing in the world but sometimes we forget that it's a work in progress all by itself. Here are 10 steps to making it work for the best.

1. Trust who you are with without a shadow of a doubt. This is the foundation that will last a long time
2. Honesty is the key to a deeper commitment and greater personal bond with your lover.
3. Equality is the source to unconditional love which does no wrong.
4. Respect your partner on every level possible.
5. Escape from feelings of your past relationship's and never bring it into the new one.
6. Time is the most precious gift that we have. So always make sure you give it to your partner.
7. Give your lover the affection that he/she needs
8. Value the person that you are with by seeing them for how unique they are to you.
9. Communication is what keeps the bond between you and your lover together.
10. Listen! Listen! Listen! Being able to listen to the thoughts, ideas, words and heart of your partner is everything! Being able to listen will either break or make your love work.